why dig?

"sometimes thing in life is not meant to be explained in depth as it can get rather complicated. When that happens, it is wiser to accept thing as it is. Nonetheless, the enigma of life gives us enough reason to feel positive about it." - Equinox

I have a friend who used to call me once in a while, I enjoy talking with him as we do have some common topics but whenever he started talking about a common friend and things that happened in the past, I felt sad for him. His time seems to have freezed; he is still borthered by things that happened few years ago. I also felt disturbed, how can I remember those details? I even suspected he called me just to ask about her??

Maybe collecting bits and pieces of clues helped him understand more and eventually find his answer....but I looked at it differently. There is no answers for everything in life and when you think you found the answer, it might not always be the truth, so why dig so much?

What I do is don't try too hard to understand things that I don't. I have to admit, it took great pain and lost to come to this, all I can do is to let go... to forget and to forgive...or you call that giving up... just move on and someday I might see things in new lights.